The most important thing is an honest communication between partners. Regardness of the type and style of the marriage, it is acceptable as long as both parties agree upon.
Ideally, having a husband/wife that is also your best friend, someone that you can trust completely is the best situation.
i always think it's unwise to find partners from those activities or agencies... personally, all relationships should start as friendship when there's a strong strong intention or desire at the very beginning, that would be very unnatural too many steps would be skipped and lead to insufficient understanding there are always opposite sex around it's meaningless to panic for not having a partner the right one would appear at the right place at the right time
if one cannot enjoy being alone, it's hard to be happy with another person it's stupid to anticipate happiness from another the other one wishes that too so 2 beggars encountered and start a story of misery
only mature people, who are independent and can enjoy loneliness, can love and share
so everyone really needs to care about personal and spiritual grwoth
quote:不肖的所謂婚姻媒合仲介,卻利用女性當作商品來作婚姻買賣 no wonder, they are not charity organizations they emerge because there's a demand in the market and profit can be made...