For children who lack self-confidence, it's not wise to undermine their self-esteem further by emphasizing their mistakes. This will make them more withdrawn and afraid to try harder.
Some children are spoiled brats, they are the one who need people to remind them not to have bloated head and big ego. Other children have high self-esteem and are motivated to prove people's beliefs are wrong about them. Then they are more suitable to be taught that they are a piece of $h*t, their high self-esteem make them work their way up to disprove the negative opinion.
frankly speaking, i don't appreciate this article very much
"substraction---> negative addition---> positive"
this makes me think of the cultural different that westerners can hardly understand 空 in Chinese culture
many cannot comprehend and mistake that for nihilism...
mensch
發表於： 2006/06/23 01:28pm
下面引用由az259在 2006/06/23 09:37am 發表的內容： 或者真的時代不同了.
true this is an age of 倒行逆施
>>當然也有很多人不聽話........結果就打得不好 corporal punishment is generally forbidden today i agree to that though i would say it's silly that people always still expect better results and performance, while less time is given to accomplish task for there's always an increasing number of projects and activities
then, pressure must be inevitable
the hypocrisy and greed behind should make people sick
look! what kind of hell of hell has been built adults OT children OT elderly postpone retirement and live with fear
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i love it 
恭喜啊！
then, pressure must be inevitable 
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