我絕對同意。但很多人不同意。如 friends are rich, many would want to be richer than them. 我 prefer to look downside, hoping to get a stable job. Getting rich is a bonus. You can say I am risk-averse or conservative.
But I feel so happy and admire that my friend and his wife live together plain. They are not rich but got stable jobs. They like to live far away from town, taking at least 1 hour to work.
Some others might admire those who drive Benz but not me.
可能我在他心目中很沒出色。平凡人一個。不像其他有錢人。可不須要考慮錢。我們仍無車。 Before we met, 15 yrs ago, my parent got a car and gave me credit card for spending. Her family is not rich but to live in gov't house. Of course my parent lose everything in 1997 and we start from zero right after graduation in the US, both of us, with the financial support of my parents. Her boss is earning a lot of money. Her sister got no kid and do spend money. I guess the only way to solve the problem is to get rich.
