-- 作者： pighandmac -- 發表時間： 2006/04/26 04:56pm 心易大大, 我已成婚, 但請問我與妻子可否終老? 以"馮"字來測. 謝謝. :em41: -- 作者： 心易先天數 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/26 08:24pm 這個問題很敏感.請說明原因? -- 作者： pighandmac -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 00:21am Dear 心易大大, I have been married for over 15 years with a daughter.  But the marriage these years is no good.  She is a 大女人 and little things happened, she asked for 離婚.  She claimed we thought differently.  Maybe I am losing hair and not rich enough. My wife is my first and only girlfriend.   A 高人 claimed that I will have a 貴子． But "Chi Mei" states that my marriage for these 10 years is bad but next 10 years is extremely good.  I was told that I should have a second wife. If my wife will be with me for life, I will request getting another baby  while tolerating her these 10 years, hoping she can change her attitutde 10 years later.  We both are approaching 34 If my wife will leave me, I will still tolerate her these 10 years, hoping her attitude changed.  Yet, I will not request for having another baby.  It hurts 2 instead of 1 if we get divorced. Wish to act like other couples holding hands in the street.  Also, she sleeps with my daughter in the other room for years, claiming my sleeping noise is loud. (I am now jogging and dieting for that). -- 作者： 心易先天數 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 02:23pm 其實你的婚姻問題在2008年是關鍵.而是否生貴子純粹是生理問題.能否貴就要看後天的教養.不是生了就是貴 再者夫妻間的相處是否有問題不能只看單方面的努力.如果你有心就不要動氣.能做的家事做一點.必警你的老婆是刀子嘴豆腐心.本性還不錯.所以你慢跑順便把怨氣消除掉讓身體健康些.對心理也是有幫助的 -- 作者： pighandmac -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 03:07pm Dear 心易大大' 多謝提點！很開心，因知道還有Hope.  我想十年的忍耐是有回報的。My wife could have changed her attitude 10 years later. Other people told me I will get married 3 times by looking at chi mei, 八字.  It borders me alot.  I love family and just want to be an ordinary person with ordinary life. 我付責家事。house cleaning, dish washing.  Also got maid every 2 weeks to clean house.  My wife is responsible to teach my daughter. 我想我 weakness is : 不口甜舌滑，說不出肉麻的說話。不是明星面孔 (even losing hair)。不是很有錢。 Hope things can changed, could be to earn more money for her, if God is 錫我, 高心易大大', Billion thanks. -- 作者： 心易先天數 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 03:22pm 我跟你說.感情不是重在虛有其表.而是對家庭的責任與向心力.一般的婦女都希望有一個完整的家庭醫個盡責的丈夫 -- 作者： 騰縈 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 03:26pm 你老婆愛你 你可有感受到? 也許他的愛也不是藉由肉麻.甜言蜜語.(就當與你相同) 那是否意味. 你是不是 了解他的行為模式@@" -- 作者： pighandmac -- 發表時間： 2006/04/27 06:25pm 可能我在他心目中很沒出色。平凡人一個。不像其他有錢人。可不須要考慮錢。我們仍無車。 Before we met, 15 yrs ago, my parent got a car and gave me credit card for spending.  Her family is not rich but to live in gov't house. Of course my parent lose everything in 1997 and we start from zero right after graduation in the US, both of us, with the financial support of my parents. Her boss is earning a lot of money.  Her sister got no kid and do spend money. I guess the only way to solve the problem is to get rich. -- 作者： 心易先天數 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/28 11:21am 錢如果只重維生工資.那婚姻沒什大問題.如果是比較的話.那早晚會結束的.我看價給錢比較好些. 有時你應該去看看一些沒有什錢的夫妻為何不離不棄.愛的真諦在這裡 -- 作者： pighandmac -- 發表時間： 2006/04/28 00:34pm 我絕對同意。但很多人不同意。如 friends are rich, many would want to be richer than them.    我 prefer to look downside, hoping to get a stable job.  Getting rich is a bonus.  You can say I am risk-averse or conservative. But I feel so happy and admire that my friend and his wife live together plain.  They are not rich but got stable jobs.  They like to live far away from town, taking at least 1 hour to work.   Some others might admire those who drive Benz but not me. -- 作者： 心易先天數 -- 發表時間： 2006/04/28 02:45pm 你只要不用比較的心態去看待就好了 佛家說滿足 就是足滿.意思就是說底盤信心有了.生存的方法氣勢就會出來