-- 作者： mensch -- 發表時間： 2005/07/20 09:52pm 故事 1： 請走螞蟻 一位朋友家住新界的村屋，他是吃素的，有一顆慈悲的心，也長期付出大量時間精神做公益服務工作。 有一個下午他放工回家，赫然看見廚房地板上多了一團像籃球那樣大的物體，黑黝黝的，好像還在抖動。驚魂甫定，他仔細望清楚，原來是一族黑蟻在營營攘攘，打算築巢定居於此。牠們趁無人干擾，忙著由屋外將物料搬進來。 朋友馬上感到不安，因為還有大約半小時，太太就下班返抵家門，她一見到這樣的東西，必然大驚失色，忍無可忍，別無他法，開水喉或者用更激烈的手段將這群入侵者趕盡殺絕，以前早有過先例。 於是朋友心生一計，覺得無妨姑且一試。他用平常心，站在廚房門口，對著蟻群說：「我沒有意思傷害你們，很樂意跟你們交個朋友，和平共處，可是嘛，你們在廚房築巢，實在難以接受，我真的不想太太回來傷害你們。就請你們快快遷走吧，希望大家都平安。」 十多二十分鐘過後，朋友回到廚房，再沒有半點蟻蹤，就好像什麼事也沒有發生過。不久太太下班回來，此事再也沒有下文了。 故事 2： 妙「手」回春 「我躺在長椅上，感覺到舒服又溫暖。貝蒂向我解釋說她用甚麼方法替人醫治，把她那雙可愛的手放在我身體上；話猶未了，她說收到訊息，知道我的腎出了問題。我左右前後張望，看看是誰通水，洩露了我健康的秘密，但是其實沒有人，她是憑靈性感應得知的。她把雙手放在我右腎上，進一步肯定先前的診斷正確。然後，她又對我說，我也患了皮膚癌；她也說對了，可是我身體毫無外面的跡象，根本不可能憑眼睛看出來；她又說我視力有毛病、胃潰瘍、體內酵素不足，全部都符合事實！在此之前，人家只是告訴她說我患了多發性硬化症，除此之外，她沒有得過任何關於我健康情況的資料。此人怎樣可能把各種病患就此診斷得一清二楚，半點也沒有錯呢？」 以上這番話出自一位叫做彼得•威廉斯的商人之口，他從來不信甚麼通靈的事，那次是英國某電視台邀請他出席一個節目，讓貝蒂•夏因即場示範念力，他也答允了任由夏因女士為她做醫治的工夫，事後給電視台採訪錄影跟進。那個節目的主題是靈媒與念力醫治工夫。 這位威廉斯先生第一次遇上貝蒂•夏因時，病得不似人形，要由太太摻扶並且手持拐杖才可以走路，一邊走一邊撞跌傢具、把茶杯打翻，又頻頻要上廁所。他說醫生聲明他命不久矣，他亦深信自己來日無多。 夏因替他醫治，不到六個月，他上街購物，行動自如，那是十年來第一次。結果一口氣逛商場足足兩小時，太太付錢幾乎破產。他的雙眼、皮膚、腎、膀胱都大有起色，朋友同事看到他復元那麼神奇，感到難以置信，當然製作該節目的監製更覺得驚訝。 故事 3： 意念開唱機 夏因也描述過有一次在家中客廳的親身經驗：她當時惦掛著一個朋友，他就是《歌聲魅影》那齣舞台劇的男主角米歇爾•克勞福德，由於此君正在開展事業上新的一頁，夏因在心裡認認真真地想起他，就在此時，唱機響起了他的歌聲，是他在該劇的一首名曲《晚上的音樂》，原來該錄音的唱片放了在唱盤上，但是並未開掣，根本已經好幾個星期未有人碰過這個唱機，電掣沒有插入電源，而大家居然清楚聽到唱機播出那首歌。看來是夏因這位奇人的心靈力量提供了能量，啟動了唱機！ 邁進發揮意念力量的人生 明白了念力（內心的意念）原來是一種能量，可以影響一切人、事、物（都是同一能量的暫時不同組合），有甚麼好處？ 你馬上變成了另一個人，因為你知道自己有能力去做一直以為不可能的事，你採用了全新的（改歪歸正的）態度去看世界人生。 你天天生活在「奇蹟」之中，天下間再沒有不可能的事—— 只要你非常非常願意達到，又夠功力，都一定「心」想事成。 當你想起一個人，「感覺」到自己很愛他的時候，你的意念已經像太陽核心的光與熱一樣，正在源源射向對方的「存在中心」，對方不斷接收到你送出的善性能量，身心靈受益。由於你這樣「示愛」，你和他都變得更快樂幸福、更健康、更積極、更祥和，於是，我們這個人間更進一步變成天堂。 怎樣發揮意念力量 當你的身體某個器官出了問題，整個人病倒了，你靜了下來跟自己的身體溝通，感謝那個器官的辛勞，將愛意傳送到那兒，祝福「它」早日康復，或者你「想像」一團金光，罩著那個部位，慢慢進行清洗、安慰、鼓舞、活化的工夫，於是，你的器官漸漸受到這種念力所影響，問題消失，病不藥而癒。 有人可以對玫瑰和仙人掌談話，「說服」了它們無須用刺來自衛，令它們自動脫掉了所有的刺。 有人洗衣機、汽車、手表壞了，在找到技師修理之前，運用意念力令那些機器恢復正常運作一段時期。 有人感應到遠方親友即將遇上災難，及時用意念傳送，告知對方，對方得以及時避過一劫。 有人安排一個重要的戶外活動，已經一連下了十多日的雨，他運用念力令到天氣改變，果然當日放晴，翌日繼續陰雨不斷。 新物理學（ New Physics ，即愛因斯坦及以後的那種以能量為重心的量子物理學）向世人解釋了箇中的現象：不再神秘，沒有魔術。誰仍然死硬拒絕承認，就太迷信舊科學了。 人病弱是因為經絡堵塞，只要送氣進身體打通經絡，使能量旋渦恢復活躍，病自會不藥而癒。 念力拿來應用到救急扶危、解決問題（例如尋找失物、犯罪證供、肉參、屍體、礦物集中點等）、治病、發揮靈感、改變他人的思想，往往有不可思議的效果。踏進21世紀，世界各地越來越多人不約而同再次重視開發這種天賦的能力。 著名物理學家尤金•威格納說過：「對於外在世界的研究終歸令我們下結論，意識的內涵是最終極的現實。」這個概念對於醫學應該是轟天動地，因為正如越來越多中西方醫療工作者明白到：健康決定於意識的內涵。大家既然承認健康是人生之中頭等重要的事，為什麼還不去努力改善自己意識的內涵呢？ 當你明白了、承認了、重視了念力的奧妙，你再次活在魔術與奇蹟之中。 http://www.simonchau.hk :em34: -- 作者： jennifer -- 發表時間： 2005/07/29 02:50pm Thank you for sharing.  This is very interesting!  I will try to use this techinique to help myself calm down.  I really don't want to cry day & night. -- 作者： mensch -- 發表時間： 2005/07/29 04:52pm it's alright to cry, if one needs to. of sourse, there's no good to cry over and over. so, reflections are important. just try the best and god does the rest. however, we are taught to work hard always i don't think it's true to be responsible is enough, not need to get stressed and burn out oneself no matter one is sad or not, it's always good to do meditation--to calm down and relax. get closer to nature is excellent too, e.g. tree-hugging is getting popular in the west. to be happy is not very difficult one only needs to stop to make oneself sad-- to grieve for the past and worry about the future to relax takes no effort actually simply drop everything if one spontaneously keeps thinking, just let it be take deep breath and gradually one can feel more relaxed if there is so much sorrow and fear, let the negative emotion go (so i don't oppose crying) at the same time, try something new, constructive and positive it's always good by starting to caring one's own body and health-- doing sport, going to bed early, to have a more vegetarian diet. i think the essence of leading a happy life is 活在當下 to be happy is simple indeed such as eating an apple, with all senses focusing on eating one may exclaim how can ithat ever be so delicious one more point, even if problems could not be solved in near future try to have more positive thinking: adversity can be a friend, if i accept it, as it would upgrade me, and give me insight. :em25: -- 作者： imen -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 00:09am 謝謝妳從無間斷的分享。 -- 作者： jennifer -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 07:03am You are right.  I do feel much better after crying.  & I can finally sleep after (since I am exhausted by then.)  I have tried going to bed earlier, but I have developed this pattern of waking exactly @ 2am & couldn't get back to sleep no matter how hard I try.  This cycle just perpetuate everyday.  sigh.... Deep breathing helps a lot & exercising helps.  It feels great to break the sweat & exhausts myself physically.  Anything to prevent myself from thinking.  Someone share this prayer with me (or something like this) & I want to share it with you too: *** Dear Lord, Give me the the courage to change the things I can, the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference. *** My problem is something beyond my control now.  I just have to accept the fact that my husband is no longer the same person that I married last year & love for the past 7 years. -- 作者： mensch -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 11:01am [這篇文章最後由mensch在 2005/07/30 11:02am 第 1 次編輯] quote:I have developed this pattern of waking exactly @ 2am & couldn't get back to sleep no matter how hard I try.  This cycle just perpetuate everyday. you called that a pattern. since that pattern can be developed, that CAN DISAPPEAR also. i once have similar sleeping disorder like yours for a period, so you may have more confidence in my advice. please note that i wrote "can disappear", so the pattern is the subject. all you have to "do" is to "relax". actually, you have to do NOTHING. just like insomnia, one can never get asleep , when one tries hard to fall asleep. the harder one tries, the more difficult to fall asleep. i have included many important points (i think) in the last post, such as  "however, we are taught to work hard always... to be responsible is enough" though i said you should try new positive things, you should reduce the amount and pace of your activities. it's best to leave only those you really need only, like taking care of your body. otherwise, you feel even more depressed to realize, though having put so much effort, you still remain in more or less despair. "reducing" is also a way ready for meditation. i understand the problem of sleeping disorder: the mind is occupied with negative thoughts and sadness, and the mind is so restless that doesn't allow your body to rest. so you have to cope with your mind, but actually you don't need to work to have a peaceful state of mind. otherwise, you would be employing another "mind staff" to monitor the old "mind staff" who's been torturing you, then the old one maltreats your body even more badly. so just let everything go and allow a peaceful state of mind to emerge. besides, you should unlearn concepts about marriage, and rebuild your own values. divorce rate is so high nowadays. you are not the only one who suffer. there are happy and sad people among those married. for those who stay single, there are also happy and unhappy ones. so happiness is independent of marriage! one can enjoy that, when that's available. when there's not a (good) partner, there're many other things in life to enjoy still. quote: My problem is something beyond my control now.  I just have to accept the fact that my husband is no longer the same person that I married last year & love for the past 7 years. fine. not only your husband, everything keeps changing. he chooses to change to be worse, but you can choose to change better. you now haven't get used to lose the love from him, but you can always love yourself(and surely, there must other people who love you ;). don't say you can't, that would be the worst of all. many people think they are loving themselves, but actually they always wait passively for love from others. some even "hurt" themselves to get more sympathy, and they may keep on doing that (subconsciously) and never be aware of... so lets things go , relax, care for your body, love yourself and allow a peaceful state of mind to come. remember you are what you eat and think. cheer up! :em05:  :em15:  :em16: :em23:  :em24:  :em25:  :em27:  :em28:  :em32:  :em34:  :em40:  :em44:  :em47:  :em48:  :em49:  :em50: :em51:  :em22: -- 作者： jennifer -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 08:17pm [這篇文章最後由jennifer在 2005/07/30 08:20am 第 2 次編輯] Thanks a million!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Hugs!!!   :em39:    :em41:   Thank you so much for your genuine concern & insightful suggestions!  Since I just moved to US with my husband last year and I only have a few friends here, I often feel trapped.  There days, our situation becomes worse and he definitely wants to get a divorce.  I have finally discuss with my dear friends and families (minus the relatives.... too much implications)!  I am  very touch by the amount of love and support they show.  You are right.  I am loved by many and I should treasure their love and support.   :em28: I found it very interesting that you point out I should change my concept about marriage.  I do feel that marriage is a commitment, a vow to express and consolidate our love in front of our dear friends and families.  I meant it when I said my vows.  Unfortunately, he did not.  He gave up what we have worked hard for all these years without showing any sign of remorse.  He insists and sugercoats that getting a divorce is best for me.  The reason I feel so helpless is that he did not even give our marriage a chance.  He did not even sit down with me & discuss our problems ( which I did not even realize), not even trying to work things out.  He claimed that he just lost his love for me even before he met the girl & fell in love with her.  It just doesn't make sense to me no matter how hard I tried to reason it out.  Why did he have to wait till I discovered their little rendevous and all his lies before discussing the issues?  Well, it's not really discussing anyway.  It's more of a lecture from him to point out my bad characteristics (which I don't think are valid).   :em13: Logically, I know that I have to let go.  There's no point of dragging on.  I deserve a much better future.  Emotionally, it is very difficult.  I am trying.  Happiness should be within my control.  Many of my girlfriends are single and happy.  They are very independent women.  One of them gave me lots of examples of how some women are much happier to leave a terrible relationship.  My case (marriage) is hopeless (as in no way to save the marriage as he completely gives up).  I am the type of person who identify my goals, work hard and strive to achieve it.  I guess marriage is one huge exception.  It takes two person to achieve a happy marriage.  That's why I say it's beyond my control.  I know it's time for me to let go.  Whether I want to or not, I have to accept the fact that I will divorce.   :em19: About my sleeping pattern, I know exactly why I developed it.  One night when I was sleeping, I woke up and realized that my husband was not in our apartment.  It was 2ish.  Since then, I always wake up at that time.  Consciously, I know that whether I like or not, he disregards my feelings & he does his own things anyway (It's just very ironic that one of the reason I feel in love with him initially was because of his sincerity and being so considerate).  If he wants to go out in the middle of the night, he goes even when I am awake anyway.  Now, I listen to some soothing music to try to relax and sleep.  :em16: I still strongly believe in my values about the importance of family and love.  I am very sad that he shattered my dreams of having a loving family.  However, even if we stay married, there will never be trust.  How can I trust him after all these lies and betrayal?  Logically, I know that it's time to move on.  Emotionally, I am still lagging behind.... Thank you so much for "listening".  :em06: -- 作者： mensch -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 08:44pm it's my pleasure^^ i think, you have already luck from bad luck your husband's behaviour, though very bad, are consistent. otherwise, it would be very hard to make a decision. besides, you are blessed to have support! as you saiid reading can help you to calm down, i would like to recommend books of OSHO to you. you may get some new perspectives about marriage from his book about women. btw, are you Cantonese speakers? if yes, please buy the post in the following floor. it's for you. if you speak mandarin only, then forget it. i think the reading is effective enough. :D -- 作者： mensch -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 08:46pm [Sale Post: Money 1] [查看這篇文章需要 1 緣幣，目前已有 1 人購買] -- 作者： jennifer -- 發表時間： 2005/07/30 09:09pm I will go check out books of OSHO. I have checked the webpage & will listen to the talk later.   THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!